Can Watching Porn Affect Your Sex Life?
Is watching porn okay? If a guy loves to watch porn should his sex partner be concerned? Is it healthy or normal for a guy to watch porn frequently when he’s a female friend and a great sex life?
These are a natural questions and concerns in men-women relationships. Let us first eliminate some confusion about porn and its effects on developing a healthy sexual relationship. A survey by a small grouping of scientists at the University of Montreal found that men viewed porn that matched their own image of sex, and quickly removed material they found offensive or horrible. Porn did not have a negative influence on men’s sex. Porn has never changed their perception of women or their relationship, which all want to be as harmonious and fulfilling as possible. Thus there is nothing abnormal or unhealthy with watching porn as long as we do not get too obsessive to the point that we choose porn over sex with your partner.
Should this happen you should think about your feelings about porn. What makes you so obsessive about porn that your partner feels left out? Is it something about your partner that you are not happy with? Is it due to boredom or an escape from a relationship that is steadily losing some “sparks”? หนังโป๊
In this case, you need to sit down to consult with your partner about the issues and concerns in the relationship. The talk must be such that it does not lead to the pinning of responsibility or working out the causes of the difficulties in relationship on her. The goal here is to work together with her to unravel the problem. Putting the responsibility on her will only cause her to get defensive and leading to argument. When you’re unable to work this out alone, it could be useful to talk to a consultant or sex hypnotherapist.
Employing situation when you have a normal sex relationship and you both has different views on porn and she is not satisfied with the role of porn in your relationship, may need for you both to sit down and talk. You need to ask yourself what you like about porn. Is it due to fantasy? Are there things you see from porn that you want both to try together? At the same time, she can also look into her thoughts about porn. Is it something that interests her at all? If so, she can pick those adult movies that meet her individual taste which can later progress concise that you both can together choose the type of porn to watch together. If she does not like the idea of having porn a part of the sexual relationship, she needs to explain the reasons and a compromise is needed in order to break this deadlock. If you both can honestly share with each other feelings about porn and porn watching, the concern about the effects of porn on relationship can go away.